Friday, December 21, 2012

Affairs: A Russian Roulette Of Love

Once upon a time, our Love of things was less important than our Love for one another,?wanting to be married and have a family was normal.?The men, women, children and pets used to play their role. Now, we Love things more, our roles are so mixed up that the pets are our children and children are our friends.? What caused the shift? Can we?get back to the basics? Did I mention greed?? In our pursuit of the deluxe apartment in the sky have we forgotten that was?built on a foundation?? Its no wonder we are so unhappy in our relationships. People who are unhappy look for happiness in other people.? Most often in affairs.

All this mess with David Petraeus got me thinking, okay folks here it is?affairs of any kind break hearts and can leave people devastated.? Playing ?Russian Roulette? with Love is dangerous to say the least. Often times you can enter into a wrong situation believing you will be able to walk away, dismissing the power of human connection for just having fun. It is a fools paradise because often times we do not control when and with whom we will fall in love. Then things become a series of confusion, emotion and pain. The best way to stop and affair is to never start.

Love is not to be planned, plotted and controlled. It is to be cherished, respected, experienced and enjoyed. Love is a lot of things but it is NEVER unsure.

I am Brooklynn Sunn and I believe in Love?.

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Thursday, December 20, 2012

Successful solo rock/pop stars twice as likely to die early as those in a band, study finds

Dec. 19, 2012 ? Successful solo rock/pop stars are around twice as likely to die early as those in equally famous bands, indicates research published in the online journal BMJ Open.

And those who died of drug and alcohol problems were more likely to have had a difficult or abusive childhood than those dying of other causes, the findings showed.

The authors included 1489 North American and European rock and pop stars over a 50 year period between 1956 (Elivs Presley) and 2006 (Regina Spektor, The Arctic Monkeys, and Snow Patrol)

Their achievements were determined from international polls and top 40 chart successes, while details of their personal lives/childhoods were drawn from a range of music and official websites, published biographies, and anthologies.

During the 50 year period, 137 (9.2%) famous rock/pop stars died. The average age of death was 45 for North American stars and 39 for those from Europe.

The gap in life expectancy between rock and pop stars and the general population widened consistently until 25 years after fame had been achieved, after which death rates began to approach those of the general population -- but only for European stars.

Solo performers were around twice as likely to die early as those in a band, irrespective of whether they were European (9.8% vs 5.4%) or North American (22.8% vs 10.2%).

A successful solo career may be a proxy for fame, it also raises the question of whether the peer support offered by band-mates may be protective, suggest the authors.

While gender and the age at which fame was reached did not influence life expectancy, ethnicity did, with those from non-white backgrounds more likely to die early. And the chances of survival increased among those achieving fame after 1980.

Nearly half of those who died as a result of drugs, alcohol, or violence had at least one unfavourable factor in their childhoods, compared with one in four of those dying of other causes.

These factors -- referred to as adverse childhood experiences, or ACEs for short -- included physical, sexual, or emotional abuse; living with a chronically depressed, suicidal, mentally or physically ill person; living with a substance abuser; having a close relative in prison; and coming from a broken home or one in which domestic violence featured.

Four out of five dead stars with more than one unfavourable childhood factor died from substance misuse or violence-related causes.

A career as a rock/pop star may be attractive to those escaping an unhappy childhood, but it may also provide the resource to feed a predisposition to unhealthy/risky behaviours, say the authors.

"Pop/rock stars are among the most common role models for children, and surveys suggest that growing numbers aspire to pop stardom," they write. "A proliferation of TV talent shows and new opportunities created by the internet can make this dream appear more achievable than ever."

But they caution: "It is important they [children] recognise that substance use and risk taking may be rooted in childhood adversity rather than seeing them as symbols of success."

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  1. M. A. Bellis, K. Hughes, O. Sharples, T. Hennell, K. A. Hardcastle. Dying to be famous: retrospective cohort study of rock and pop star mortality and its association with adverse childhood experiences. BMJ Open, 2012; 2 (6): e002089 DOI: 10.1136/bmjopen-2012-002089

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The Couch Sessions | FOOD: Cooking Outside the Box: Chatting ...

Nestled between two restaurants in Downtown Phoenix is a place you wouldn?t find unless you were looking for it. No elaborate sign or ?bright lights. No gimmicks of any kind, in fact when you walk in, the blue interior and dim lights makes one feel almost exclusive. The section of leather arm chairs just adds to the lounge type feel of the restaurant. It?s called Switch, and let me tell you, it?s worth finding.

Switch is a continental fusion?restaurant?that truly has something for any foodie. Their menu boasts a plentiful choice of wines, spirits and unique food. Braised beef that melts in your mouth; macaroni oozing with cheese; crepes so soft and fluffy you?d think they came straight from heaven. Ironic enough, when you meet the man behind the food, he looks more like he belongs in the Hell?s Angels than making food fit for a?deity.

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[Our waiter, Ted, described the Cottswold as cheese smothered in Ranch. So true, so delish!]

But looks can be deceiving, as this Harley riding, tatted up chef at one of?Phoenix?s?most prominent restaurants, Jason Peterson, sat down to talk to me a little about Switch.

Couch Sessions: What kind of creative influence do you have over the menu?

Jason Peterson: Well I became an Executive Chef here about three years ago. Some of the things on the menu where here when I took over, and if I removed them I would probably get strung up on the corner. And I know that, and I know what the guests like, we?ve made improvements and tweaks on everything. There?s not one thing on the menu that doesn?t have my hand in it somewhere, even if its a dish that was designed before I got here.

The waiter was telling us you change the menu about twice a year.

Yea, we try to do a winter and a summer menu. Summer menu tend to be a little bit lighter. Our winter menu a little bit heavier, a little more entree heavy. And once a month we choose our value special our local friendly special, and that?s a solid monthly special, people know they can get it all month long. It?s never more than $8.95. Right now I didn?t want to do a Christmas special, so we?re doing a Mayan Dooms Day Stew. Everything in the stew is indicative of what would have been eaten by the ancient Mayans. ?So there?s butternut squash and sweet potato and poblano peppers, ancho chiles and chocolate. The running joke being that we are only going to be serving it until the 21st. Every Friday we do an Alaskan Cod fish and chips with jalapeno tartar sauce for lunch, which is not advertised?purposefulness?and the one Friday in the last 12 weeks we didn?t run it, and people were asking about it.

You can probably tell that our price point sits a little low, and we feel like if we work a little bit harder we can still find interesting quality items to offer our guests without killing them in the price. We feel like we can offer a little better value than alot of places.

How would you classify your food, style wise?

Well I was born in Virginia, so we are a little pork-centric. It?s kinda hard to say, I would say ?Eclectic?America?. After all what is American food, but a mix of what people have brought here. We have Asian and Mexican influences on there? American Funky maybe?

How about ?Groovy??

There you go, Groovy American, I like that.

Other than here, whats your favorite place to go eat??

Phoenix right now has a great emerging food scene? the best in the valley for me, probably even the state, is Kevin Binkley, with Binkley?s Restaurant?in Cave Creek. ?Clearly one of the best trained, most creative Chefs I?ve seen.

Are you classically trained??

I am. I did not go to culinary school. I started this 22 years ago. I was in college and I really really disliked ramen noodles. And so I got a job in a lousy Mexican chain restaurant pretty much to eat. The bartender thought I had some ?talent and he introduced me to two gentlemen who were the owner and chef trained in the Cordon Bleu in Paris. I worked with them and in a short time I knew I had found what I wanted to do. I dropped out of college and started a formal apprenticeship. This was 22 years ago. ?There was no Food Network, it was not seen as a glamorous job. Now the rest of the world has caught up with me.

To learn more about Switch, visit their website or visit Chef Jason and head over to?2603 North Central Avenue, Phoenix, AZ.

Source: http://www.thecouchsessions.com/2012/12/food-cooking-outside-the-box-chatting-with-chef-jason-peterson-at-phoenixs-switch/

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Leanback TV app Stevie releases iPhone version, raises $1.5M ...

There are video discovery apps, and there is Stevie ? a leanback app that plays a stream of videos, complete with tickers that are reminiscent of MTV in the 80ies. The app just launched on the iPhone, and its makers raised $1.5 million.

Social video curation app Stevie is now available on the iPhone as well, and the company behind it has raised $1.5 million to finance further development, including an expansion to Android. The folks behind Stevie announced a $1.5 million dollar Series A round of funding from Li Ka-shing?s Horizons Ventures Thursday.

Stevie?s new iPhone app as well as the existing iPad and web apps present its users a number of themed ?shows,? which consist of non-stop streams of videos related to subjects like comedy, music and celebrity gossip. All of that is accompanied by a number of tickers displaying Facebook updates, tweets and more. It?s like 1980ies MTV meets internet video, with some social mixed in for good measure.

But the app hasn?t done a lot of personalization of these show formats. That?s going to change in the next few months, according to Stevie CEO Yael Givon and her co-founder Gil Rimon. Both told me Tuesday that they want to focus on refining their product next year, and that most of the newly-raised money will be spent on development.

Aside from personalization, they also plan to launch an Android app within the first quarter of 2013, as well as add additional sources of content and bring some second-screen functionality to the iPhone version.

Stevie is based in Tel Aviv, Israel. Including the newly-announced funding, it has raised a total of $2.1 million.

Source: http://gigaom.com/video/stevie-iphone-app-series-a/

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Monday, November 5, 2012

Book Reviews and Organizing Tips ? Surviving Motherhood

I have recently had the opportunity to try out several books and wanted to share my thoughts:

Healthy Foods A-Z: I thought this was super cute. I am always looking for new ways to get my kids interested in healthy foods and this is a cute book at that goes through their letters, while also teaching them the names of super healthy foods that are in the shape of a silly face. Cody seemed to really like it. They have the english word of the food and the spanish translation which was a bonus. The only thing I thought was confusing is that some of the food was in English and translated Spanish and some were Spanish and translated English. The confusion for me set in when the foods were categorized by the letters of the alphabet. I was going through the foods with Cody and ?A? for example, had a picture of celery with the Spanish word ?Apio? which starts with an A, but Celery starts with a C so it was a little confusing for me trying to teach him letters with the foods that went with the book.

Harriett?s Homecoming: This is a MUST READ if you live in the Cincinnati area! The book is about a falcon chick and her travels through Cincinnati!? It takes kids and parents to the Zoo and Botanical Garden, the Krohn Conservatory, Eden Park, Great American Ball Park, Cincinnati Museum Center, Findlay Market, and more, providing parents with a map of all of the locations in the back and informative sidebars on each page with history/information about each place Harriett stops. I thought this was such an interesting way to teach kids about their home town and give parents ideas on places to build in some family fun time!

Good People Everywhere: This was a winner of the Mom?s Choice Award, Honoring Excellence. I can see why. This book talks about all the good things people are doing around the world. It is simple, yet relays a powerful message. It is much easier to look at the negative in the world and this books reminds us and shows our kids that there are a lot of beautiful, kind and gentle spirited people in this world. This is the message I want my kids to see, read and feel in their core because it is true. There are good people everywhere? you just have to open your eyes, look around and you will find them :)

Absolutely Organize Your Family: I LOVE THIS BOOK! It is a great organizational book that is put in an?easy to read format and simplistic terms. I felt like I was able to keep myself pretty organized when I had Cody, but once Grayson was in the picture, I had to adjust and figure out a new schedule. As both the boys get older, we just keep getting busier so I have to keep us organized. She has some GREAT ideas on ways to organize all aspects of your family. My favorite part has been the chapter on Calendars. This is something that I have been thinking on because the calendar I currently use is just not big enough to write all of the activities we have as a family of 4. After reading this I do have a good idea on what I am going to do. What I liked about this chapter is that it really honed in on why we need to teach our children to be organized with their time-?in regards to free time, activities and school. If we can teach our kids this priceless lesson while they are young, they won?t struggle with the stressful demands on time as they get older! One idea she had for the little ones is to create a pictogram for the month so they know what they have going on each week. I knew this is what I need to do for Cody because every day he asks me what we are doing that day and wants a play by play. This way, he will be able to look and see what is on the schedule! Just another way to empower them :)

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We LOVE books at our house (as you can see above??I totally set this up, but I wanted him to look up and smile and he told me??NO! I am reading?!!) ?and when we get bored with books we have here, we head to the library. We do about once a month since we get about that long to check them out. Now that both the boys pick out books from there, I had to come up with a place that they had a home or else we would have lost them all. Absolutely Organize your Family book gave the idea to get a basket to keep them all. Now we have a?basket under our coffee table where our library books belong. We read them and then we put them back in the basket. If Cody wants to take some upstairs to read before bed he knows that he has to bring them down in the morning and put them in the basket. Great tip :)

Have you read any good books recently? Any organizing tips you want to share? We would love to hear them!

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